20 Honest Life Facts to Know Before Embracing 30

I know, after five years when I’ll be waking up one day looking into mirror and will be realizing that I am in my 30s, it will be an ultimate nostalgic feeling, as time runs superfast in the blink of an eye. However, the transition from your 20s to 30s doesn’t come with predictable augmentation. You will realize some of your mistakes, some sincere truths and facts of life and will endure some physical and mental changes too. If you are approaching to your 30s and still feel like you really need to know some genuine verities of life, then, here are some veracities and facts that need your attention.

1. Fitness and Health

In 30s your body won’t be as fit and strong as you were in your 20s or teen days. Your metabolism process will slow down as you age, you might get tired and exhausted more often.

2. Investment for Wardrobe

Your 20s were the perfect time of exploring and experimenting fashion and style. But, 30s needs some more respectful and sophisticated styling, so better invest on some elegant and classic pieces for your wardrobe.

3. Changing priorities

Your priorities will change, with no doubt. You have to keep your husband/wife and kids first before you. You might have to change or adjust your plans according to your family.

4. Kids, your joy and pain

After having kids, you will be filled with double responsibilities towards your kids and spouse. You have to sacrifice your quality sleep to give them a non-disturbing sleep. Kids will be your life too and will fill your life with joy and happiness.

5. No compromise with passion

No matter how much your passion is crazy or wacky, it will be your best part of life giving you the zest of life.

6. Experiences for Happiness

The happiness over getting new things will gradually fade away. Experiences like serious and meaningful talks with friends or parents or some noble stranger or may be a trip or holiday can cherish you with new and more experiences.

7. Leave your boring job

It’s not worth it to stick to your job that doesn’t interest you. If you are not content with your job, get out of it and open yourself to new employment options.

8. Fruitless plans

Your plans won’t always give you some fair result. You might fail, but don’t stop planning and experimenting.

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9. Learning is limitless

Be it 20s or 30s or 40s, learning is something that never ends. Every single day of your life could be a learning experience. So, grab whatever you get to learn.

10. You will change

You will endure some changes, and if that bothers anyone you will more likely ignore it, as you move forward, you will realize that you are not here to impress everyone,

11. Past should not affect future

Forget about your past and those awful memories. Don’t let your past stain your future. No one cares, so let your past go.

12. You can switch your role models

If your role model used to be Jennifer Lopez in your 20s, and now you think it should be your mom or any fictional character, then it’s totally normal.

13. You can have simple pleasures

Everyone has their own simple and silly pleasures. Cuddling with your pet, or having a piece of chocolate cake, or listening to Enrique Iglesias music collection, is totally acceptable. You can do whatever makes you happy.

14. Embrace everything you get

As you move forward, and get age do accept what you get, be it any experience, bad days, good days, benefits, drawbacks. Accepting things will make you strong as you move further and further and things will automatically change around you.

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15. Be kind

Try to be more kind and compassion. People will remember you for your warm and kind nature. You will be easily accepted by your surrounding people.

16. Love your parents

Being in 20, most of us get different point of views towards life contrary to our parents. But, they won’t be there always and forever with you to guide you. So love them while they are still here and try to apply their wisdom and concepts in your life.

17. Friends will disappear

Raising family, taking care of kids, spouse, in-laws will drift you away from your friends. You might get separated from your friends, so no worries make some new friends and miss your old friends.

18. Apologies are good

It’s never too late for any apology. If you have made a mistake, apologize for it. It will restore your relations and will make you happy.

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19. Forgive people

If you apologize for something, then you too should learn to forgive. Forgiving someone can make you feel better and lighter.

20. Being 30 is not being ‘old’

Folks of 20s like me think that, being 30 is being old. But it’s not like that. Your hair not going to turn grey or your faces will not discover any wrinkles. There will be changes in your mind, some changes will cherish you some will irritate you, but you will still be fresh and fit. So go and embrace your 30s, as you going to miss it soon when you will be in 40s.