7 Most Ignored Signs In A Relationship That Can Cause Divorce

This post was last updated on March 20th, 2024

Most Ignored Signs In A Relationship That Can Cause Divorce

Marriage or wedlock is defined as the socially recognised union of two individuals who are entitled with rights and responsibilities and who agree to be partners at all times of happiness and sadness for their whole life. Marriage is said to be made in heaven but misunderstandings or unwillingness to understand each other can make your married life as good as hell.

In recent years, many studies suggest that the rate at which people are getting divorced has increased significantly. People are not taking marriage seriously because of lack of true feelings for their partners. But if the marriage is kicked off with immense love, then too divorces happen due to family issues or financial or routine based issues. Such petty issues may trigger into debates and eventually conflicts resulting in divorces.

But if you really love your partner, then you need to keep your senses activated and keep a check on your behaviour towards them at various occasions. You must rationally think what is actually affecting your married life and which of them can be easily warded off.

Just read on these 7 most ignored signs in a relationship that can cause divorce, which will guide you to pay attention to the early signs that can create havoc in any relationship:

1. Lost Trust Factor

Trust is the most important key for leading a happy married life. If you lose the basic trust factor, then there is no difference between your spouse and a stranger. You trust neither of them. Constantly checking phones, overhearing their telephonic conversations, checking mails and social networking site accounts of your spouse reveals that you don’t trust your partner any more. You spy on your partner as you doubt his/her loyalty towards you. Even if you are unable to find his/her dishonesty towards you, then too you will always doubt them. You will start fighting over petty misunderstood issues and ruin the charm of your love life.

2. Over Involvement Of Third Person

Marriage is a union of two individuals and you both need to have control on the path at which your married life is heading. You both need to take decisions mutually and day by day try to understand each other. You need to study your spouse’s behaviour and need to have a flexible attitude towards them.

Try to confront all your issues as soon as you face them and sort it out between you two. Don’t ever involve a third person for solving your marital issues. You are the best person to know your partner. Be it your family member or a good friend, stay away from discussing your married life with any random person, who actually doesn’t have any idea about your and your partner’s interpersonal relationship.

3. Forcing Your Spouse To Change

If you really love your spouse, then accept him/ her with all their strengths and flaws. Commit yourself that you will never ask your partner to change as it is their strengths and flaws that makes them apart from the crowd. It is okay if you ask your spouse to change some small habits, which is actually for their own improvement. But constantly nagging your partner to change the way they look, walk, eat or change their thought process is something that can bring depression in your marital health. Be mature and keep in mind that every creature in this world is unique and everyone has their own traits.

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4. Don’t Feel Attracted To Your Spouse

Physical intimacy plays a vital role in keeping the love life ignited. Your love must persuade your senses to feel attracted to your spouse irrespective of your age and the number of years you are married. If you are not feeling attracted to your spouse, then it means that you are getting influenced by your personal fights or lessened private moments. The best thing to avoid this is watching your marriage video or going through the photographs of the candid moments you spent together. Keep in mind that if you don’t feel attracted to your spouse any more, then it will surely create a divide between you two.

5. No Say In Decision Making

All the decision affecting your married life should be taken together as a couple. You don’t have the right to embark on a decision when you know that the action will have an effect on your spouse. If you don’t give your spouse a say in decision making then you are disregarding his/ her very existence in your life. Collective decision making will in fact, deepen your relationship and you will short-list the best available option.

6. Blaming Each Other

Couples love to indulge in the so called blame game. But sometimes, there is a limit when it needs to be stopped. If you really know your partner, stopping judging him/ her keeping in mind all the negative things about them. Rather than starting to blame each other, try to address your issues and sort it in one shot. Don’t take your quarrels to bed. Try to sort your fight as soon as possible without stretching the matter.

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7. Feeling Disrespected

Either in private or in public, try to avoid passing jokes on your spouse. First of all, you need to understand how well is your partner in taking jokes on him/ her. Then you need to analyse the situation and the kind of people present before you crack a joke. If you know that your joke is going to hurt your spouse’s feelings, then you should avoid saying it. You need to take care of the respect of your partner as it a give and take process. You should give respect to take respect.

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