How to Talk Smooth and Nice with Girls

Talking to girls in smoother and nicer way is a kind of skill. Some get it naturally and some after lots of practice. Well, naturally doesn’t mean, guys get born with this skill, rather it’s a perfect blend of maturity and personality. For those who are new learners, guys you really need to be cool, confident and patient with this skill. Remember, don’t ever rush! Here are some ways to talk real smooth and nice with girls. Let’s start mission ‘Casanova’..

1. First Move

Well, you admit it or not guys, but the first step gives you sweat. Yeah..The first move is the toughest one for every guy. However, some men believe there are some pick up lines or some specific first moves, but it’s really sad to let you know that there’s is no such thing as a pick up line. Girls usually hate those men who just jump over to get their attention buying them a drink or giving their introduction to them at office cafeteria or complimenting them for their dresses. If you do this, you killing it. Trust me! Be calm and cool and natural, try not to hurry-burry. Rather get into a natural conversation like “Hey” or you might just give a small opinion if your lady target is involved in some conversation with her friends.

2. Be confident and smart

Fake it, until you make it. Girls do like those guys who are quite confident but not over confident. Watch your words as girls are the word analyzers as they listen each and every word of you and could take it seriously. So, try not to offence them or hurt them with your words. Speak less, but smartly and confidently. If you think, that you are not confident enough, then let’s gain some confident. You can choose the most hottest girl wherever you are, be it a bar, or a mall or a cafeteria. Approach her, it’s obvious you will be rejected, but if you can approach her then, it will be easier for you to approach the lesser hotties. Always feel that you deserve the best. Even if you fail to shoot a moon, then you will definitely land among the stars.

3. Try to be genuine

Well, being confident doesn’t mean you will fake it all. Remember I said, “Fake it till you make it”. So, for a long runner, you need to be genuine. Talk to her like you are involved in her conversation. Don’t be too flirty, as girls love a right mixture of thoughtful and humour talks. Make them feel comfortable with you, don’t push them for anything. Now, if you want the lady’s perfect attention then, don’t over-concentrate on her. You can talk about your nearby happenings, surroundings or any genuine subject as this makes them feel that, you are not trying to impress her.

4. Garnish your conversations with humour

Well, research study says, girls get more attracted to those men who have good sense of humour. Girls, love to laugh and being cheerful. And if you can make them laugh or smile with your humour and logic then you never know, you might be the winner. But, hey remember, excess of anything is real bad.

5. Make eye contact

Making eye contact can get you a good attention. As people who are capable of making eye contact are considered as genuine and confident. If you are afraid of making eye contact, then she might think, you are shy person, or little bit of ashamed of something or simply a loser. Make your eye contact more often while you are talking to her, but don’t overdo it as it could be misinterpreted by her.

6. Have a powerful body language

Peeking onto your phones, or crossing your arms or flaunting a wicked smile could kill your plan. All these stuffs either make the girl think, that you are already occupied or busy with your phone or she might not be comfortable to talk to you. Better stand straight with your shoulders pulled gently back as this can make your muscles appear whatever you have, hold your head high and don’t stare at anyone or at your girl. You right posture makes you look confident and go easy.

Guys, it’s not that tough, be a gentleman. Try all this steps, make it practice or you can imply it on girls where you often hang out that can make you more confident. Once you get the trick, you can go for it where you usually hang out. And remember, never ever rush. Mission accomplished!!

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