12 Clear Signs Your Spouse is Losing Interest in You

Being in love can make you feel flying on the top of the clouds. Falling in love with a person is the best ever feeling. Your emotions get on the top of the world and dopamine hits you with its best shots every time you meet that person, spend time with that person. However, the effectiveness of that feeling gradually comes down, it starts when you spend more than ample time with that person and get used to all his/her flaws, shortcomings, strengths, weaknesses and surprising actions.

This process usually takes place when you get married to that person for a long time and the excitement factor of your relationship experiences a gradual fall and nothing remains there in between you and your partner to ignite that spark in your relationship, not only physically, but also emotionally. If you’re in so love with your partner and so is your spouse its so great for both of you, but if you have a slightest hint, that your spouse is missing something or your relationship is going downwards, then this article might help you to know and recognize with the signs if your partner is losing interest in you.

Let’s have a brief look on the list:

1. Your spouse never or less often responds to your texts and calls

Ignorance is one of the common behavioral changes you might notice in your spouse when he/she is losing interest in you. They usually stop responding to your calls and messages as they have already fallen out of love.  They find it useless and uninteresting in having conversations with you, hence they stop attending your calls and texting your back.

2. You both haven’t had meal together from a long time

When a person loses interest in his/her spouse, the person tries to avoid confrontation with his/her spouse. Hence, they try to avoid their spouses as much as they can and in every possible way. They start coming home late to skip having meals together, make excuses not to share room and even stay away from home for long days. 

3. Your spouse is not interested in making plans anymore

If you’re noticing your spouse is not interested in making plans for vacations, trips and holidays together, then it might be because of your spouse is losing interest in you and your relationship as well, as they don’t feel happy and excited to spend quality time together with you.

4. Lack of emotional intimacy from your spouse’s end

Emotional intimacy is a crucial factor in a relationship especially love relationship or marriage relationship, as it helps two different persons bond together strongly on the basis of deep emotions and emotional support that makes them rely on each other during their best and worst times. If your spouse is no more supporting you emotionally rather being distant and ignorant, it is possible your spouse is no more in love with you, which is a clear sign your spouse is losing interest in you.

5. Your partner gets frustrated more often

When small normal conversations between you and your spouse ends in verbal fight, misunderstanding, frustrated anger and lots of yelling, it might be because one of you is not ready anymore to understand the other and hence, your burst with anger and frustration as he/she has to bear with you without any option. It’s a clear sign they don’t want to be with you anymore, but still, they feel helpless as they are already in a relationship, and their helplessness makes them feel frustrated and angry.

6. Your spouse never pays attention towards you anymore

When two people fall in love, their love for each other makes them understand and notice their partner so well, that they notice every single change in their partner be it behavioral, verbal or physical. But, if you think your partner used to notice you earlier, but has stopped noticing you recently, it’s quite possible your spouse is having an affair, or if not, he/she is losing interest in you.

7. Sex is gone from a real long time

It’s completely obvious when a person feels no more interested in his/her spouse, they feel less or not attracted towards their spouse, especially when it’s about sex. They fall out of love and hence, your sex life tends to suffer.

8. You feel like you both don’t know each other anymore

Remember those days, when you felt you know your partner from a long time like forever and you feel you have met your soulmate, the reason is you used to be in so much love with your spouse that every single thing about him/her makes you happy and feel content. But, if you feel like your partner has changed, you haven’t talked to him/her from a long time, haven’t had any deep important conversations, haven’t spend quality time, haven’t been noticed by him/her, your presence never made any difference in his/her day-to-day activities, and you don’t know each other anymore, then it’s a sign that your spouse is losing interest in you.

9. You are no more a priority in your spouse’s life

When we love someone, they become the first priority in our life, having kids later, makes an addition to the priority list. But, when you lose your position in your spouse’s priority list and you are no more important for him/her, you should understand your relationship is going to fail. Your partner making decisions without you, attending events and functions without you or without letting you know, or not being present in your important times, it is due to your partner has lost interest in you.

10. You even haven’t touched each other from a long time

Physical touch, physical intimacy and small physical gestures are very normal and important as well, in a relationship. When your partner holds your hands to adore you, or when you’re outdoors spending quality time, hugging, cuddling, or even slightest spanking on your back as a friendly and funny gesture happens when your partner is connected and attracted towards you. But, if all these suddenly disappears, you need to accept it your partner might be no more interested in you.

11. Your spouse pays no attention to his/her looks anymore

When you’re in love with someone, you feel attracted towards that person that makes you feel concerned about your looks to make yourself attractive so that, you could attract your partner, which is absolutely normal and expected. You start giving attention to your hairstyle, your looks, appearance, your dressing style, your outfit choices and hence you keep upgrading yourself physically to make your partner stay attracted towards you. However, when a person falls out of love and has no one to impress, instead choose to stay distant from a particular person, they stop giving attention to their looks and appearance.

12. Your spouse doesn’t communicate anymore

One of the clearest signs your spouse is losing interest in you is, they don’t communicate with you anymore. They have gone weirdly silent and stopped making any smallest conversations with you, even they tend to avoid conversations initiated by you in order to avoid you in every possible way.