16 Questions You Need To Ask To Unleash The Real You

We actually don’t believe in serious planning for the future as we are too busy with our routine life and to go with the flow. In fact, whenever we think of such questions that give us a reality check, we tend to diverge our minds to keep it away from getting stressed. It is basically our fear associated with such life changing questions that obstructs our cognitive functioning. We have in fact, placed ourselves in a comfort zone and finding answer to such questions startles us deeply.

When you find excuses to escape from reality, you tend to isolate yourself from your hidden potentials and if you have big and determined goals in life, then this fear of failure can pull you back. If you wish to be successful, then you have to take risks. Take risk of getting rid of your fear by facing it. Be honest to yourself and let your mind wander into reality zones untapped before. Ask yourself questions that have been poking your mind since long time and try to find answers logically.

It is time to make choice when you are struggling with your career and have a long list of pending goals. Finding answers and avoiding excuses is the best way to know what you are capable of. Pushing yourself forward to ask these 16 questions you need to ask to unleash the real you will help in promising yourself a progressive attitude and a successful first step towards a bright future:

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   What would happen if you take this risk?

Life never goes smoothly as you wish for and there are many ups and downs that compel you to take mind boggling decisions in crucial circumstances. You cannot afford to play safe always when you know that deep down you want to opt for other option which is risky. You are just too scared to make a choice as failure can cost you some loss. Remember, take calculated risks with confidence and the fear of failure will convert into hope for success.

2. Who you are in real terms?

Are you the person whom people have perceptions about? Does your mind accept what others tell about you? No! You are a person what you perceive about yourself to be. It is time to know what is important for you in life and what you want to become. Let other’s opinions be other’s. Use your mind and believe in your views and let people do the talking while you unravel the real you.

3. Are you important for yourself?

Accept the reality. Most people find themselves following a monotonous routine each day without even thinking that life is moving with light’s speed and still they haven’t thought what their ideal life would be like. Instead of spending all the time in keeping people around you satisfied, spare some time for yourself and know if you are important enough to think about yourself or not.

4. What do you want from life?

Most of us never think of it as a life changing question as we have infinite desires. But it is important to know whether you want to have a life that offers you every luxury you ever wished for or a life where you are contented with what you have or a great combination of both. Imagine the most realistic picture of your ideal future life with utmost seriousness because the next questions will require you to work on it too!

5. Who or What is holding you back from doing what you wish to?

When you know how you want your life to be, then put your mind to work and think about all the obstacles that are pulling you back. Try to list all the hurdles in a piece of paper and you will realise that these hurdles are actually cooked up theories and they don’t really exist if you try to give right direction to your life. And when it comes to knowing who is holding you back, then obviously it is you!

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6. What are you waiting for?

Being able to paint the ideal life for future, you are also able to devise plans to clear all obstacles and to redirect your life in the desired direction. Past cannot be changed and dwelling in the past won’t make positive changes in your future. Waiting for opportunities or suitable time is an excuse to escape from the reality. If you procrastinate the action required to be taken now, then you will probably end up in dreaming and not realising them.

7. What is important for you: doing nothing and crying or attempting to do it?

Being honest to yourself is the best way to reveal your true self. Ask yourself that will you be contented with life if you do nothing for fulfilling your dreams and stay in the safe zone without experimenting with something new. Know from yourself if you want to grab every opportunity to try something new without fearing of failure. Ask yourself whether you like to award yourself for attaining what you wanted in life or just want to lead a robotic life.

8. Why haven’t you listed down your goals?

Your seriousness for your life is showcased by your actions. If you are determined to attain your goals in life, then surely you must have listed them down. If you still haven’t written them, there is no point in knowing what you want from life as you have no enthusiasm left in you to unlock your desires.

9. Do you have your priorities in life set?

When you have your goals set, do you know in what priorities you must set them to start acting on them? This is very important. Step by step approach in logical manner without deviating from your aim is the only way to steadily pace towards the kind of success you imagine for yourself.

10. Does making excuses satisfy your consciousness?

It appears that you make excuses to convince someone but it is actually a process where you try to convince yourself of a false and made up notion that you really don’t believe in. Your consciousness knows what the truth is and no matter how much your sugar coat the truth, you won’t be satisfied with your habit of making excuses.

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11. When you are going to stop making excuses?

After answering these 10 questions, you may have known that excuses drive you away from the reality and thriving in reality is the only way to improve yourself and pave a path for a realistically bright future. So when you once thought of starting to make excuses, then why not give try to get rid off this habit once and for all?

12. When you will listen to yourself and be honest with yourself?

Successful people across the globe have a cherished mantra – Listen to what your heart says, think about it logically from your mind and take an honest plunge. If you cannot be honest with yourself, you will never have the confidence that successful people flaunt. You will boast that fake smile and attitude which is just another excuse to not face the reality. Start being honest to yourself and see how you drive away all your fears for a better change in life.

13. Do you really want change in life?

If you are able to answer all the above questions and have come to agree that being honest to yourself is foremost important, then you probably have made the first change in your life this moment. Change in your attitude will bring an overall change in your life and this is why don’t expect people to change for you. If you really want and need change, then start with yourself.

14. Does leaving the comfort zone scare you?

As of now, you have been comfortably living as you wake up at 7 am, have breakfast, leave for office at 9 am, work, have lunch and coffees and finally return to home by 7 or 9 or 11 pm! But still your monthly pay check is keeping your mouth shut and you somewhere get scared if you are dragged out from your comfort zone. But the choice is yours. Is your current comfort zone really comforting and you are contented with it? Does it render you the happiness of being on top of the world?

15. Are your willing to make sacrifices for true happiness in life?

Coming out of your comfort zone is the first sacrifice you can ever make to follow your passion that gives you immense joy. Everything comes for a cost and when you know that your ultimate aim in life is being happy, then making petty sacrifices for finding true happiness in life is worth the pain.

16. Lastly, after answering these questions, will you make an excuse to forget it or actually do something about it?

So, after knowing the real you and finding out what is reality and how you want reality to be in the coming years, are you just going to close the tab and still do what are doing for the next unpredictable years? It will be your yet another excuse if you say that these things are theoretical. You can be one among millions who can bring a 360 degree change in your life just by doing a bit of thinking and calculating job right now.